Everyone who knows Caitlyn has knows that passion emanates from her in such an inspiring and contagious way that no one escapes unmoved. Her desire to help young girls realize their true beauty and her heart for victimized children has led her to pursue a life in line with her ethical convictions: teaching high school English in the inner city of Las Vegas, arguably the most decadent destination in the U.S.
She has moved me to tears in a matter of minutes as she regales to me her love for these children who come in with cigarette burns on their backs and sneers slapped on their faces by too many sleepless nights of babysitting their siblings while their moms work two night shifts. But Caitlyn will not tolerate the way society marginalizes and martyrs those who are vulnerable. She never backed down in college when her residents needed her, and she's not about to start now. For her strength in the face of hardship, her sensitivity in the face of a calloused world, and her joy in the face of a Herculean task, I admire her more than she knows.
Life Principles:
1. Living in guilt is just as detrimental to your testimony as living in sin is. Reliving your past mistakes doesn't help you, or anyone else for that matter.
2. Learn to say you're sorry, even if you feel like you didn't do anything wrong. When someone else feels hurt, it ceases to be about what you did or did not do. Accidentally killing someone would still result in their death-- it doesn't matter if you did or didn't mean for it to be that way. Life is too short to value your pride over caring for another person's heart.
3. Laugh at yourself. There's such joy in being able to realize you're not perfect, and such freedom in not caring about it. It numbs the sickened feeling of embarrassment in your stomach, and you get to enjoy the humor with other people.
4. Be careful who you love...but when you decide to love someone, love the way you want to be loved: without limits and with constant affirmation. This is true for any relationship, not just romantic ones. Give yourself over to expressing yourself exuberantly as you attempt to communicate your love for those who are special to you.
5. Dance and sing all the time, even if you don't feel like you're good at it. Who cares if people laugh at you for being happy? Plus, these two things will definitely be in heaven, so we might as well practice now.
6. Listen to kids. Sometimes it is completely uninteresting, but if you never listen, you'll miss the times when it is beautiful, earth-shattering, and wise. You'll miss the moments when God is trying to get through to you.
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